At the beginning of your flirting, he was on fire, but by now you have a weird feeling about him. We all know this saying: love makes blind. Against this blindness here is an easy list to see where you are right now in your relationship. So you do not have to waste your time on loveless things but can enjoy more Tony Bet.
If these signs sound familiar, it may be because he Is no longer interested in you. Although it can be really hard to hear such things. At some point it is better to be honest with oneself.
FIRST: THE GETTING-TO-KNOW PHASE
There is a lot to lose – after all, men and women behave very specifically within the getting-to-know phase. While showing feelings, making yourself vulnerable and insecurity determine the dating time, thoughts also circle back and forth. Women in particular drive themselves crazy and puzzle over whether the chosen one is interested or even already wants more. It becomes difficult when the weeks pass and there is no clarity between the two parties. Women are still guessing and men often even run out of steam, which can be seen in the following signs.
WHAT ARE HIS ANSWERS? BRIEF OR HE CARES?
Especially in the first days and weeks of the getting-to-know-you phase, you were used to him contacting you frequently and writing in detail. Besides asking how you were doing and what you were up to, he was also curious about your interests and you had the feeling that he was very eager. All of a sudden, however, he lets up on that. While you don’t understand the world anymore, this is an unfortunately quite “normal” behavior with men. They lose interest much faster, especially when they realize that you want him. In the age of online dating, it also happens that he meets with more women and it may be that someone is simply more interesting than you. As hard as it sounds now.
DOES HE STILL WANT TO SET UP DATES?
It sounds blunt: men are hunters and like to take the initiative, especially when they are interested. Then they prefer to meet every day and ask more often. But eventually, it wears off and you wonder why. There are several reasons for this: From a new woman to noticing that you do not fit together, everything is there. It’s also not uncommon for a man to let up when he realizes that you’re not letting him into your bed fast enough. But then you certainly have not missed anything with him.
LASTLY, IF YOU HAVE TO RUN AFTER HIM
Admittedly, that you also take the initiative and ask for a date is more than desirable. But if you get the feeling that you’re doing all the work, that’s not a good sign. If he still says yes to a date, it is often more due to boredom and that there is no better date in sight. Getting to know someone and showing interest is always a give and take – never forget that!